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My Near Death:

On May 19, 2006, I went into the hospital with a double pneumonia.  They had to put me on a ventilator, so they put me into a coma.  Some 30 odd days later I woke up from the coma and was informed that I had developed A.R.D.S. (Acute Respiratory Distress Syndrome). I had multiple organ failures (kidneys, liver, heart), a tracheotomy, and a fever of 107°, which nearly scrambled my brains.  They had informed my wife that I would not come out of the hospital alive.

But, I did.  I made it. I lived.  I have to be honest though,  I was a little let down, because I never had what I would call a divine intervention, I never saw a light.  I thought for certain I would have something of a religious experience, but I didn't.  I did however have a few visions.  I remember feeling that I was in Florida and that it was Christmas time.  I also remember feeling that I went on a trip to Turkey with my brother.  I was put into a rehab "boot camp" program to teach me how to eat, drink, & walk again. 

Rehab was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life.  It was the greatest challenge just to stand up again, let alone walk.  But, I fought through it.  I had lost a lot of weight, which I have gained back already.  I do want to thank my wife Katie, for staying by my side through all of this.  She went above and beyond in helping me come home and to heal.  The doctors would not let me come home unless the entire house was painted.  So Katie coordinated a massive effort of friends and family to repaint our entire house in about a weeks time.  In addition, on her website, Katie gave updates as to my condition, to keep everyone informed.  Thank You to Katie and everyone else who helped. 

On July 3rd, 2006 I came home from the hospital.  Climbing the stairs was extremely tough, but with Katie's help, I did it.  Walker & wheel chair, I couldn't believe it was me. Well, I no longer ask why me?  It happened and its over, I am still alive!!!  Unfortunately, 6 days after I got home, my father passed away.  The last time I saw him was at the hospital, when he came to visit me in rehab.  I sometimes think he made a deal with God to take him instead of me.  I miss you Pa.
 
Well that's basically how I nearly died.